Gaining

Since you are talking about marriage, i'll go easy on you. Cause truth is, this is really something which needs to be sorted out before you make a life commitment to someone.

Talk to her about it, be up front and honest, speak from the heart, how you feel and how it relates to her.

Whatever you do, do not marry this girl until you are both clear on where you stand on this subject, if its not meant to be, its not meant to be, but its better to find out that now then half way through a marriage and you end up resenting each other.

Good Luck.

Wow, glad to see it worked out for everyone.

To the OP, even though that post is from months ago, I agree fully with Max. You need to square with your girlfriend before you try to dupe her into gaining weight. It won't bode well for your relationship if you trick her.

You've got to clear the air.